days after final exam in VU... having almost 3 weeks holiday... everyday doing same routine job... help work.... teach... fetch.. teach..fetch... now 1.07am... i just got back from times square... where i am suppose to celebrate birthday with a bunch of friends.. my dad called me back....
as today i went out without telling themm... and they found out =.=.... so boring... is it everyone onli can get their freedom when they are 21 yrs old?....
MANY ppl will thing wah... why ur family so strict de? my dad and mom dun care de wor i go until wat time.... I HEARD MANY MANY TIME ALREADY... but wat to do... i am born in this family...
i TOld a close fren my issue... he said if i were u... i will prefer to be poor no car not studying in sunway... find own work.. and learn him... earn own money to support owns life... plus he is paying his own college fees... and he is the birthday boy today.... I REALLY admire his attitude and principle... but not every family problem can be settle the same way...
MAybe some of my frens will think... wah... why henry so childish de... do such things... and thinking so childish... why must go out have fun cannot be a mature and grown up man to stay at home and always listen and help out my parents...
I GUESS when you are in my situation u will wan to fly and find a place in earth to breathe.... i wan to have the key of freedom... some of my friends ask me to discuss wif my parents to find out a good solution... but...................... things in life are not that easy... life is full of obstacle....
Time will heal and prove everything... start from today... i am back to a caged animal... today is not my first time sneaking out of house... and i really felt like a teenager on my past days... i wonder how long i will be caged and when will i be given the key to fly....
i believe everyone will have a chance... i did my best in helping out for the family.. helping earning money.. helping to lessen the burden of my parents due to working stress.. i believe i did something... having my study to worry about... they pay for my college fees and i must not fail and score good... making them smile when see my results... i am doing my job as a good student and son... why i cant be given a LITTLE bit of freedom.....................................
i wonder if anyone that read my this post and thinks for me... and i dun care if ppl laugh at me... already biasa... some frens even said.. ur family so strict... next time dun call u out d lar... later put us aeroplane again... later come out... need very fast go back... worst is YOU ALWAYS THE ONE THAT SPOILTS our MOOD...!! all i can do after i listen and forget it... cos i already told them my problem... they cannot accept it... all i can do it.. stay in my cage... i believe one day... i will be FREE...
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differend family have different kinds of rules and traditions. have you ever tot that your friend might someday sit down and think 'wa, henry's parents actually think and worry for him all the time... how about me?'
one day... just one day u will understand and crave for that call from your parents asking 'where are you' and 'when are you coming home..' trust me on that =)
just think positively.. when one day you are totally free and hardly receive calls from your parents, maybe you will start to feel upset.. so sometimes i think you should treasure that.. =)
is just the way our parents think for us la henry...must understand the gap between our generation n theirs but wat they think is for our own good...even we noe how to think but to them we're still inexperince...so ya just give n take in life...i'm sure one day u will get to do wat u want...nothin is impossible
Hey Kah Yee, Wei Nye here.
Since when did you started a blog? Anyways, in your case, I've been there done that. My mom was also quite strict abt my whereabouts and what time I should be home and all that but as time passed by, when I had my own car, fetch myself to college, do my own things with my own life, she learned to let me go abit by bit. So, I think you don't need to be so stressed out over this. Just let it be, follow what they have to say and when they know you can take care of yourself, they will let you go on their own. Don't worry too much.
wow... thx for u guys advices.. i will treasure wat i have now.=)
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